How is Jesus not just another war god of soldiers fighting for the expansion of Kingly powers?

Jesus never went to war, war came to him, and instead of fighting that war and protecting his life, he chose to die. Jesus never forced anyone to live by his law, he gave them a choice, there was no violence involved except by those who hated him. Jesus also wasn't a wealthy man that tried to profit, he was a man that turned water into wine, and made one loaf of bread feed thousands. He came to lead by example, but he left it up to us to decide who we want to be.